By JOSHUA CHAPMAN
Los Alamos

Let’s talk gay.

As a gay man who grew up in Los Alamos, it was hard for me to understand what LGBTQ+ culture was because there was no exposure.

Let’s talk about the divide that has occurred due to Drag Queen Story Hour. The divide was already there, but this event has emboldened some individuals to speak their little blessed hearts out against an innocent event.

So let’s talk about being LGBTQ+ in 2023. Granted I can only speak about being gay, white, and CIS-Gendered, but I’d love to hear other perspectives. In 2023, it is legal for same sex marriage. In 2023 it is legal for same sex adoption. In 2023 it is legal for people to express themselves however they deem necessary.

Let’s talk about parenting. My husband and I are parents of 7. In no way are my children in danger from us, or Drag Queens. They were in danger from their previous families. In 2023 it is legal for parents to CHOOSE what they have taught to their children. If you choose to not expose your children to drag queens, that is your prerogative, as is it mine to bring my children to meet the same said drag queens. Your religious views are your views, and although they may be great for you, they may not be great for us.

For Ms. Carr, who incorrectly quoted Lil Miss Hot Mess’ publication, creative play helps children learn to express themselves, and the “LGBTQ+” literature helps kids understand that being different, no matter the way, is okay.

For Mr. Thomson, who referenced the Jesse Dirkhising story. You are implying that every kid is in danger if they are with gay men, and I find this appalling. Let’s talk about Jeremiah Valencia, who was starved, tortured, killed and buried in a Rubbermaid box by his heterosexual parent and step parent in our very own state just two years ago.

For those of you thinking, this is a little over the top, keep in mind, the LGBTQ+ community is under attack like this every day. People like Ms. Carr and Mr. Thomson do not seem to realize that their words not only hurt, but are deadly. Deadly to the children who may be LGBTQ+, deadly to the children of LGBTQ+ parents and deadly to this community. This community could flourish with the growth and development led by the acceptance of others. But people like yourselves will not allow for this town to grow beyond your beliefs and narrow understanding of existence.